The Truth About Menopause: What Doctors Aren't Telling You
Dr Mary Claire Haver reveals how the medical system has been failing menopausal women and what you actually need to know.
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Diary of a CEO
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Date:
2024
Article Summary
Dr Mary Claire Haver sat down with Steven Bartlett on The Diary of a CEO to discuss what women actually need to know about menopause - and why the medical system has been letting us down for decades.
This isn't your typical "hot flushes and mood swings" chat. Dr Haver digs into the real health consequences of menopause, breaking down the different stages and explaining why our bodies respond the way they do.
The Medical System Has Failed Women
For too long, menopause has been dismissed as something women just need to "get through." Dr Haver explains how the medical establishment has ignored or minimised women's symptoms, leaving many to suffer unnecessarily. The lack of proper training for GPs means many women aren't getting the support they need during this critical life stage.
Health Consequences Beyond Hot Flushes
Menopause triggers inflammation throughout your body, which affects far more than just your reproductive system. This inflammation is linked to increased risks of heart disease, cognitive decline, and other age-related conditions. Understanding this connection is crucial for managing your long-term health.
Fibre: Your Menopause Secret Weapon
Dr Haver emphasises the critical importance of dietary fibre during menopause. It's not just about digestion - fibre helps manage inflammation, supports gut health, and can even help with hormone regulation. Most women aren't getting nearly enough.
Build Muscle or Lose It
During and after menopause, women lose muscle mass at an accelerated rate. Dr. Haver stresses that building and maintaining muscle isn't about vanity - it's about protecting your bones, metabolism, and overall health. Resistance training becomes essential, not optional.
Sleep Disruption Is Real
Night sweats are just one part of the sleep puzzle. Menopause disrupts sleep patterns in multiple ways, and poor sleep affects everything from your mood to your metabolism. Dr. Haver provides practical strategies for improving sleep quality during this transition.
What Men Need to Know
This conversation isn't just for women. Dr. Haver discusses what partners need to understand about menopause and how they can actually support the women in their lives (hint: it's not just about being patient with mood swings).
A friendly reminder: I'm sharing what I've learned, not prescribing what you should do. Always chat with your GP about what's right for your unique situation!
UNDERSTAND YOUR BODY
• Learn the different stages of menopause - knowledge is power
• Understand inflammation's role in your healt
SORT YOUR DIET
• Increase fibre intake significantly (aim for 25-30g daily)
• Focus on whole grains, vegetables, fruits, legumes
• Fibre helps manage inflammation and hormones
• Track your intake - you're probably eating less than you think
BUILD MUSCLE
• Start resistance training 2-3 times weekly
• Don't fear weights - you need them now more than ever
• Focus on major muscle groups
• Consider working with a trainer who understands menopause
FIX YOUR SLEEP
• Create a cool sleeping environment
• Establish consistent sleep/wake times
• Consider breathable bedding and nightwear
• Discuss persistent sleep issues with your GP
GET PROPER MEDICAL SUPPORT
• Find a GP who takes menopause seriously
• Don't accept "it's just menopause" as an answer
• Ask about HRT and other treatment options
IMMEDIATE ACTIONS:
- Calculate your daily fibre intake for three days
- Book a resistance training session or class
- Schedule a comprehensive menopause health check
- Share this information with your partner
Remember: Your symptoms are real, your concerns are valid, and you deserve proper medical support. The system may have let women down historically, but you don't have to accept substandard care.


